Francesca Elise - No longer crossdressing
Being different from the norm can be difficult, particularly when challenged by others. I have found a long term friend in the male persona of Francesca Elise but I lost a sexual partner when 'she' stopped crossdressing after a 'long, robust discussion' with one of 'her' friends. So I am happy to have found a male friend that I can be completely honest with, including being open about my sexuality, but I still have the desire to be kissed, cuddled, fondled, sucked and fucked by a regular partner.
It took me a while, but I have found the courage to put a profile on Grindr, which is described as follows by one of the well know versions of AI: "Grindr is a location-based social networking and messaging app primarily designed for gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and other LGBTQ+ people to meet nearby users." I have created a Grindr profile as DavidP CD, described myself and what I am looking for and have had many contacts from other Grindr members either nearby or very distant. That was because I did not use the 'Show My Distance' setting on Grindr, which meant I was literally getting worldwide contacts in new Grindr chats. I have now learned how to use Grindr properly, including spending time looking at the Grindr Tag Glossary to understand and use Grindr Tags properly. That means potential Grindr contacts now know that I live in Granada (Spain) from my Grindr About Me, they know I speak English, they can see my distance away from them, they can see and search for my Grindr Tags, and they know my Grindr Expectations.
It will take a while, so I have committed to a Grindr subscription for a year to allow myself and other members the opportunity to discover one another and make contact. What happens after that depends on the situation, because I am basically looking for a long term 'friend & sexual' relationship but at my time of life, short term relationships are also OK.
More Grindr updates to follow.
