I have not had the opportunity yet in Spain but in the UK I was versatile during XXX meets with other males and/or crossdressers. There is the idea of being a 'Top' and being a 'Bottom', where the Top is normally the one to penetrate the Bottom; but this separation doesn't hold up in many situations where the XXX session is prolonged. The first time that I was penetrated by a penis (having already pleasured myself for many years with a variety of dildos, vibrators, and other suitable objects), it was during a meeting in Leeds (UK); we were both wearing stockings and lingerie and he (she) has a wonderful, beautiful long cock that I could only stare at as I sat on the sofa he (she) dropped her jeans directly in front of me; it was natural for me to immediately touch and suck her cock; she lay on the sofa and I spent many minutes just pleasuring her with my lips, mouth and tongue being careful not to over arouse her, just keeping her on the edge for long moments before pausing, relaxing then starting again; it meant that she did not come on the sofa and when I was not sucking her cock, just holding and masturbating it, we kissed for a long time, fondling and cuddling each other; she asked me if I wanted to join her in the bedroom upstairs; when we entered the bedroom she asked me if I knew how to give myself an enema and offered to show me the best way to do it, showing me into the bathroom where there was an enema attachment on the flexible shower hose; she inserted the attachment inside her and slowly opened up the tap, warning me to keep the water pressure low when it was my turn and just let it flow inside me until I felt full, then stop pause for a moment and release into the toilet before repeating the process until the ejected water was clean; then use the enema attachment at least five more times checking each time for a clean release of ejected water, plus one additional enema which she said I should hold inside me, walk around for a few moments and then release, again checking for a clean ejection; she did the whole process while I watched, then I did the same while she watched; we then dried ourselves with a towel and returned to the bedroom; what happened next was that she asked me to fuck her because she liked to feel a penis thrusting inside her; she got on the bed on all fours, spreading her legs while I put a condom on; I then lubricated her sissy cunt, pleasuring and exploring her with my fingers for a few moments while I positioned myself behind her and between her legs; I lubricated my erect cock and very slowly, pressed gently against her opening, encouraging her to widen her sissy cunt for me as I carefully increased the pressure, easing off or pausing for a moment to allow her to adjust to the cock widening her sissy cunt lips; I took my time and she was moaning with pleasure, then there was a plop and the head of my cock passed beyond her sissy sphincter; after that it was easier to enter her but I still did it slowly, backing up a little, pushing forward beyond the previous depth and eventually I was inside her to the hilt; at that point she was used to my cock in her cunt and I could start gently fucking her, almost pulling out, then thrusting my cock back in again; I increased speed over a period of time and she was moaning constantly as she rocked back and forth on her elbows with her head on the pillow; I fucked her rapidly now, with my hand underneath her gripping her cock, manipulating her erect sissy clit as I fucked her at speed; at no point was I totally forceful, although I could do so if requested, on this occasion I could tell that she wanted me to 'love' her and treat her with respect; as I came inside her she was releasing long low moans of pleasure; then I carefully withdrew my cock from her sated sissy cunt and I removed the condom now swollen with my cum. We cuddled for a while on the bed, kissing and talking, as she told me how much she had enjoyed it. The 'she' fucked me with her cock also in a condom and she took my anal virginity.
So I had kissed, cuddled, talked to, fondled, licked and sucked, felt her cock growing in my mouth, fucked her gently, then increasingly more rapid as she moaned with pleasure, came inside her; then she did the same for me.
That's why the title of this blog entry is "Versatile", because a 'Top' is not always a Top and a "Bottom" is not always a Bottom, even during the same XXX session. I discovered that I enjoyed pleasuring and fucking her, and then we switched. The bottom line (if you excuse the pun), is that I am very happy with both and if my XXX partner wants me to fuck them, then I am very happy to oblige.
