BDSM, Restraints, Self Bondage and Ice Lock Timers

I have added several photos of my BDSM items, which were used on me during crossdressing and bisexual encounters, and now I use solo to enhance my teasing and helpless experiences.

There are many ways of creating self bondage timers, usually involving ice cubes or keys frozen in ice, but the best way is with a large metal ice timer which can stay frozen for hours. The length of time in restraint is important and best calculated by experimenting beforehand.

The cock sheath and urine tube to mouth become important for several hours of long self bondage, to allow necessary relief of urine which eventually fills the long tube and has to be swallowed. I usually wear a body stocking to keep the urine tube in position, with a full blindfolded gimp mask to disorientate me and a ball gag with a hole through it for the urine tube. Then I hogtie myself, or spread eagle myself on the bed in tight restraints, reliant only on the ice locks for eventual release. This is a fantastic way for me to be totally restrained and helpless in bondage, without a partner to release me, with the added discomfort of having to drink my own urine after a couple of hours.

When I experiment with BDSM and restraints, I also invariably crossdress in lingerie, stockings and high heels (no need for nail vanish, make up or perfume but I might wear lipstick). So you can imagine me preparing for a self bondage session by first dressing up in different items of women's clothing; bras and panties, suspender belts and stockings or hold up stockings, blouses and skirts or full dresses, body stockings, nighties, and the inevitable high heel sandals, shoes or boots. When prepared in such clothing, I progress to teasing my sissy cunt by inserting an anal plug and (if not a long many hours session) fitting a chastity cage on my cock.

Because I also have many ESTIM (electro stimulation) items, the anal plug can be an ESTIM anal plug and the chastity cage can be an ESTIM chastity cage; plus I have many ESTIM stick-on pads to be placed on my upper bare legs, on and under my balls, and near my sissy cunt; I also have safe, but often uncomfortable to the point of pain, ESTIM nipple clamps (it is important these nipple clamps are bipolar to only pass the electric current across each nipple; NOTE: never use ESTIM across the chest and heart, which can be very dangerous). All these items make for a very flexible ESTIM arrangement, with multiple controllers to vary and make the ESTIM electro pulses unpredictable. The ESTIM 2B, in particular, has many different modes and High/Low power levels (it also has a mains cable for permanent higher power levels), which is excellent for self bondage; the ESTIM 2B can be set in a Training Mode with increasing stimulus to almost pain level, also there are many other modes that I like and which eventually make me (no choice when in restraint or chastity cock cage) have a hands free cum. Silicon rubber is a wonderful discovery for ESTIM and I have many items made of silicon rubber; these vary from silicon rubber loops (with or without hollow metal balls for added stimulation) and loop clamps, to silicon rubber cock head loops with an urethral insert, to silicon rubber contacts inside the chastity cock cages (some also with a silicon rubber urethral insert), to penetrative silicon rubber urethral inserts (of different lengths and diameters, the longest and widest of which can be inserted through the whole my urethra into my bladder), each silicon rubber urethral insert having a metal press stud button to attach an ESTIM cable. I really love using a long thick silicon rubber urethral ESTIM insert, sterilised, lubricated and pushed carefully deep into my urethra; held in place by an ESTIM chastity cock cage with silicon contacts on either side of my sissy cock clit; with other ESTIM items such as two silicon loops stretched around my balls and cock base, ESTIM sticky pads on my sissy cunt and near my prostate, also on my thighs to make them twitch like an experimental frog; safe ESTIM nipple clamps, to tease my nipples to distraction; when these ESTIM items have been tested OK, then I fully restrain myself, including fitting a ball or dildo gag, with the option of my gimp mask; before the final restraint is tightened, I start up five ESTIM controllers at once, then I tighten the final restraint so I have lost control until the ice lock melts, for an amazing helpless in restraints ESTIM session until I cannot stop myself cumming hands free, senselessly shaking my head, as I lay fully restrained on the bed; after which I am totally helpless to stop the continual torment of the ESTIM until the ice locks finally melt, which means that (after the initial post-orgasm reluctance for more stimulation) I cannot stop myself becoming aroused again and having further exploding spasms of repeated deep fulfilling orgasms, the cum held in my urethra by the long thick silicon ESTIM insert. By the time I am finally able to free myself after the ice locks have melted, I am totally drained of all energy; I release myself from my restraints, remove the ESTIM cables from the controllers, remove the ESTIM cock cage and carefully withdraw the long thick silicon ESTIM insert from my urethra, bringing with it some of my cum as a lubricant, then when the silicon insert is completely removed, I am finally allowed a long stream of my remaining cum and cleansing urine released from my urethra. After this, having spent hours being restrained and helpless while the ESTIM stimulated me to the very highest levels, I just want to sleep for a while; but I keep all the restraints and ESTIM items ready for when I wake up, because once awake I invariably want to restrain and ESTIM myself again to another orgasm; this time without using ice locks, leaving my hands free and manually adjusting the ESTIM controllers to reach maximum safe levels of power while my poor prostate and cock endure yet more electro torture. ESTIM is addictive.

So, with all the above, I can have very enjoyable short, medium, long or very long self bondage sessions; including full restraint and the possible choice of the gimp mask or just ball/cock gags; I can vary the time of self bondage according to available leisure time and I particularly love to be self bound for hours in bed at night, with the lights out or on a timer and no option but to wait for the ice lock to release or frozen keys to become available. When I started with self bondage with rope, I always had a knife or a pair of safety scissors available to cut myself free when I was finished with the session or in case the ice locks or frozen keys did not work. I also tried different forms of ice locks; ice in stockings or tights, ice in socks, keys frozen in ice, then eventually I purchased the metal ice locks. Now I do not use a knife or scissors, use full leather restraints on my wrists and ankles, attached to the bed legs or to a leather hog tie loop; and I use car luggage strap tethers (with the release mechanisms out of my reach) to pull the restraints tight with no possible escape, I gag myself to feel more helpless and I am reliant only on the melting ice locks for release (which I prefer).

The addition of the urine tube, anal plugs, chastity or ESTIM make the whole session more interesting to the point of helpless pain; and all the while I am wearing women's clothing for full passionate arousal.

If you wish to experiment with self bondage, then always start and progress very slowly, including experimenting with different types and sizes of ice locks, until you are confident of eventual release. Initially, always have an escape route if you have no way of release.

I also enjoyed being fully restrained and punished during my crossdressing encounters with dominant males. The feeling of being totally helpless, while being used and abused is wonderful; particularly the eventual penetration by a large bulbous forceful bare cock, contrasting with my own helpless feelings of being (close to) raped, of my being totally unable to stop the slide of such a cock into me and the increasingly rapid thrusts before the dominant man let go of himself and exploded inside me, filling me with his hot fresh juicy cum; it was even better in group sessions, where I was forced to suck, deep throat and prepare multiple cocks for rotational fucking by each man in turn.

Such wonderful lifetime memories.